To be a Mom

after long time i’m not write anything and i miss it…

what happend to me?
yessss i’m pregnant, soon i would to be a mommy.
i’m happy? ofcourse.
my husband and all of my family they did.

Now i’m pregnant in 30weeks, it’s mean…. as soon as possible i will to be a complete woman.
many feels, many happyness, many worries but i suer this is the one of many thing that make me happy. this is give from god.
and i’m so thaksfull.



Incredible Journey Nusa Lembongan,Bali (23 October 2014)

Bali is not only about Kuta, Ubud, legian, Seminyak. when you want to explore more about Bali you could found Incredoble Journey Like i did.

This begin when my husband said, if he go to Bali, he want to do Cliff jumping at Lembongan island. yei This is One of three island outside of Bali. They are, Nusa lembongan, Nusa ceningan and Nusa penida.

We Start from Sanur Beach, Actuallu You Can use to cross from Benoa with Bali hai But this is need more Time For cross about 1 Hour, but if you cross from Sanur Beach Just needed 30 or 40 minutes and get  less price for the boat. one person IDR 150.000 For Go and return. and the Time  for return By request. Time Operasional boat From Bali Start at 8 A.M and The last Cross with the boat from Lembongan At 15.30 PM.

If you want Stay in lembongan and more explore This place it impossible to find something more interesting than i can, beause in there many bungalow, hotels and losmen and many travel service offering water sport.


-on the boat-



First destination could you see in this place is, Mushroom beach.  The boat stop here and later when going back we awaited boat here too.


Welcome To Nusa lembongan guys 😉

-Mushroom beach, nusa lembongan, Bali-



For Explore This Place You just can ride with Motorcycle, and for this is not to worry. many who rent motorcycle with a starting pRice IDR 50.000 and i got it!!!!.

This island is  not Big island, so whereever you go you will find beach with light blue water altought lembongan has a bad way but don’t worry it;s doesn’t matter because the view is very beuatiful.

My destination is Cliff Jumping and this place there is Nusa ceningan. interesting, Ceningan Can be Reached Just by passing The yellow bridge.

waw… it’s so cool

– Bridge to Nusa ceningan-


and first time i saw it, i just can say to my husband “this is beautiful but No!!! you couldn’t Jump”

Look! this very beautiful view. and i was there.





my husband really wanted to jumping down but, Unfortunatelly he couldn’t do it.  According to the information the tide was high and much too dangerouse to jump.




After full with Take the picture in Cliff Jumping, Nusa ceningan, i think i’m hungry LOL.

Along the Way in lembongan and ceningan many cafe s that have great views but we we hace chosen  Dream Beach in lembongan.

Lunch and you can relax with the sun, and view the beautiful Beach. it’s so perfect!




And the most unfortunated thing  is I CAN”T WEAR MY BIKINI.

That’s It.



One day in lembongan is not Enough, i have not been explore the beach more and the sport Water.

Some day i’ll be there again.


i’m not old school wife

To be a wife it’s doesn’t we just stay at home, cook, cleaning home everyday, treat husband like a someone thet we can;t do anything.


To be a wife is a Great Chooise. I choose resign from my office and then follow my husband at the town where he work, i think this is not a something that shameful. When i’m be housewife i can still do anything. That the people think, i can’t get a money beauce i’m a jobless. please open your mind. to be a wife is a Great JOB. Beside i’m a house wife for my family, i’m a bussiness woman too. so, don’t think if i be a housewife i’ll be a wife that old school. oh my god! i’m a modern wife. LOL.

happy life is love

Java Wedding Celebration

After “akad Nikah”when process very sacral, i choose a celebration with ” Traditional Java themes:. My husband is first son in his family, and my parent in law want to celebrated with their friends and all big family,in addition it is alittle more culture that deserve to be prounded. this Celebration we called ” NGUNDUH MANTU”. When a proces family of husband received we are as a new wed couple after the proces ” Akad nikah” in my house as a bride.


This Traditional Java Celebrated Ngunduh mantu is very entertaining for me. this is first time and once time in a lifetime. i often see this proces, but when i did this proces i just cand said: “WAW… this is truly my wedding party”. and i’m very Thanks full to my Husban Family for this celebrated.


My Traditional Java celebrated Used “Jawa Jogja” it’s mean i used “Paes Ageng Jogja”. Start from the make-up, dress that we used, decorations in the building very full of java themes. and i love it. why i choose Red dress and red colour for this theme, because this colour very beuatiful for my theme, traditional jaca celebrated.

Can YOU see it??



And traditional java.



i’m used paes ageng with hijab style.

A Lifetime Commitment

Banyak cerita dan rasa di pernikahan saya.. enggak banyak banyak banget tapi juga enggak sedikit. tergantung bagaimanan nanti saya menjabarkan panjang dan lebarnya.

Yang jelas, this wedding will be a lifetime commitment with ilham ardhi nugroho.

we call this process with “Akad Nikah” (because i’m muslim). process when the groom say “ijab qobul” like :”saya terima nikahnya…… dengan mas kawin…. dibayar tunai” . maybe this this like when a person with christian religion say wedding vows in  chapel. this moment was held with a simple but attended by family and close friends. and i prefer things like this.

when it is very sacred and me cry (also my aunty she was cryed). because my mother couldn’t be there when the moment, and my father absolutely he saw from the heaven. but i think this is a way for me to get a new family. whit my husband adn my mother and father in low. i feel very blessed whit this moment.

i called this the start of a lifetime commitment.


Busyness in October

halo October…..

How’re you? kali ini saya mau nulis pakai bahasa Indonesia aja ya. hahahaha gak osk sok an kayak biasanya yang pakai bahasa Inggris. Bukannya apa apa, selama ini sok- inggris karena saya juga lagi belajar. Ya pingin lah punya teman orang inggris yang bisa diajak mengasah kemampuan, alhamdilillah dapet lah walau satu atau dua.

By the way, what happent in this october? yes, i was a bit busy for my wedding.

yeiiiiii akhirnyaaaaaa

segera saya akan menceritakan  how deep i’m happy with this october. tentang akad nikah, resepsi ngunduh mantu dan the journey my honeymoon.


walau mungkin yang baca atau yang lihat blog saya gak ada, selalin saya sendiri. tapi, menulis itu adalah kebahagiaan. konon sih sejak dahulu sekolah saya rajin banget mengarang indah pastinya sesuai EYD. semakin besar merasa semakin kurang mendalami lagi apa itu EYD. LOL…


see u in the other story guys…

Simple Mission in YOGYAKARTA (1-2 August 2014)

hellow jogya…


this is a second time i’ve been visit to yogjakarta, people Called “DIY/ daerah istimewa Yogyakarta”. nowday maybe many people know about yogyakarta, one of special city in central java, Indonesia. The proof is, when i’m in jogyakarta many internasional tourists and from variouse countrys and i’m happy because Indonesia been one of place for holliday destination.

date time is 2-3 August 2014 i’m visited jogya with my fiance :). and beside we wont to holliday that time we are hunt for souvenir for our wedding, and we also searched our wedding ring. and you know this is very entertaining. i love this journey in jogja. maybe i can show you all tourist attraction what i’ve visited.


This is name of street in jogja. This name “MALIOBORO” very famous destination for holliday beside Borobudur temple.  Along this street you could found people who selling their product from jogja. and i’m one of tourist domestic which make malioboro always in list destination when in jogja.



This is a one of existing fort in jogja, located in downtown jogja, be arround in icon of jogja malioboro and “0” KM.

0 km

this Fort opend until 5pm everyday.

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in fact, this is just a place that sells food typical of jogja, but the special thing is, this place is very nuance of java.  ranging from the waiters, the language used, and decorations very identic with java.


i called this is “THE MOST ICON FOR JOGJA”. This monument very hectic in the night, when tourist come for photo beside this monument.

tugu jogja


this is a park legend,is told, place aking who had 40 concubines. when you came this place you can see  the bathing pool concubines, and home when they stayed.


In jOgyakarta many place that still retaint the original building and this is why, many tourist curios.